My many relationships have fallen somewhere between a string of not-so-great first dates and being in love.
I've enjoyed the fun aspects of being with a partner without being tied down to one person emotionally.
You know how when you meet a guy you like, you always seem to meet another one at the same time? Why waste time dating just one guy, when you can sift through an entire bunch and pick the one that’s right for you? It’s not okay to lie or make someone believe that you’re exclusive with them when you’re not.
[Read: 9 reasons your ideal man wish list isn’t working for you] Why it’s better to date more than just one guy at a time You may think that dating multiple guys makes you a cheater, but you’re not even official yet! Dating two or more guys doesn’t mean you should stop caring about their feelings.
I was fresh out of a relationship, breakup wounds still searing.
But, rather than stay single, I figured out what the hell I wanted from my next long-term partner, dove straight into dating, and found myself in the middle of a rotation — that is, seeing a multitude of men, all noncommittally.
Going on dates with a few people gives you perspective.
As relationship expert Olga Levancuka, the author of How To Be Selfish, explains: 'Even if you’re not looking for "Mr Perfect" and you’re just interested in casual dating, going out with one guy can limit your choices and leave you feeling slightly disappointed about the whole dating process.'Relationship expert India Kang agrees, adding: 'Multi dating or circular dating is a must. It isn't cheating, it's about keeping your options open.'Here, they share why you should date many men at the same time to ensure you find Mr Right - and avoid getting caught doing it.
Dating multiple people is one of the best ways to find the perfect match for you.
They’re all in the notes section of my phone: the 26-year-old graphic designer from Baltimore. A couple of actor/bartenders who live within a five-mile radius of my place in Central Los Angeles.
The 37-year-old who works at an ad agency, has a sweet pit bull, and an enviable vinyl collection — but is so obviously not over his ex-fiancée.