There is a high chance that if you do, your friend will form a stronger bond with this person to prove their love. It was a great success for me, because I can’t handle subtlety and we value each other’s honesty. You should never ignore it if a friend is dating a physically or verbally abusive or manipulative jerks.
If you really can’t help yourself and your friend asks for your opinion, only give it once. My favorite argument for why I should oust the guy was his chinstrap facial hair. There’s always a chance you could lose your friend by expressing discontent, but for their sake and safety, it’s worth it.
I think, "My ex is dating my friend" is very common, especially if you live in the suburbs, where everyone knows everyone. I remember people in my neighborhood would tell me they saw them out and I would seriously cringe, and then go home and cry. Make sure not to react in front of others because it could get back to your ex and your friend (I mean, your ex friend). I don’t say this to judge or to blame, but I think it is important to be clear about what has been happening.She will very likely be devastated and feel betrayed by her best friend and by the man she thought she had a lasting future with.Well, me and this guy started sleeping together about two weeks ago and we're crazy about each other. My feeling is that she would be very hurt, but at the same time I don't want to pass up a chance to be with someone who could turn out to be the love of my life, you know?So a part of me wants to tell her in the hopes that she would be happy for me, but when I put myself in her shoes hearing this news, I think I'd be devastated. They will support you more than you could have possibly imagined. What are the chances they are going to end up happily ever after? Focus on your kids, your career, and your love life, if you choose. I'm so so sorry." She will still be upset, but at least you're thinking of your friend's feelings. If she goes off on you, at least you can say you handled it the best way you could have.